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老人摔倒后和女儿道歉,儿子植物人公婆起诉离婚:我不想连累你

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“我不想伤害你。”

6个字,讲述了有多少老人对年轻一代的愧疚。

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许多老人生活得很辛苦。

一方面,我迫不及待地想把我的棺材交给我的孩子们。一方面,我不忍心买一瓶药吃自己的腿。在我结婚之前,我的父母说,我不想和你住在一起。我不想麻烦你。父母老了,病了,你不被允许知道。事实上,我不想给孩子们带来麻烦。

父母住在我们身边,我不知道从哪里开始,我变得谨慎。

当我们年轻的时候,我们看着父母的脸。只是我们长大了,他们老了,照顾与照顾的角色互相关心。为什么你有一个“面子”要看,因为我们年轻时无法帮助我们的父母;这是因为老人和弱小的父母无法减轻我们的压力,我们更害怕老弱病残的身体,我们厌倦了我们。

几天前,互联网上这样的帖子引起轰动:

我上周回到家乡去看望住院的奶奶。当我进入病房时,我看到祖母的眼睛充满了自责,并说她没用。她总是给孩子们带来麻烦。生活在这个时代的意义是什么?

我想起初,我的祖母在家里拉着5个孩子,我不得不照顾我的父母和我的姻亲(爷爷们当兵,去乡下工作)!在那个时代,将五个孩子拉进大学生是多么困难。

现在是孩子们出于工作原因没有照顾他们的祖母,孩子们也很尴尬,这位87岁的奶奶因为害怕拖着孩子而想早点离开.

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在线发布

也许很多老人都有这种想法,觉得自己老了,拖着孩子。在线因为这篇帖子,老年人的问题正在迅速升温。

A netizen commented:

Parents didn't give up their children because they fell to school, how can children give up because their parents fell old.

Another netizen lamented: My grandmother has been like this in the past, always complaining about herself, and always said to give us trouble.

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The People’s Daily recently published an article with the meaning of the article:

The son’s car accident became a “vegetarian”, and the pregnant daughter-in-law and the in-laws together propped up this broken family. It didn't take long for the in-laws to pull their daughter-in-law and let the two divorce.

The old man’s thoughts are very moving: the daughter-in-law is still young and cannot be “tied” for a lifetime.

Everyone felt sad when they saw this scene.

This in-law may be just to prevent the daughter-in-law from being guilty of himself and choose to bear it alone. Parents worked hard to help us get married, and parents were willing to help us unload the so-called burden at all costs, let us go light.

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A netizen said that when you don't encounter human nature, you will never realize how great love is.

Another netizen responded that the family did not have to test. When they were born, they were willing to give everything for us, even at the expense of life. On the contrary, we have experienced a little burden or grievance, and they will live very guilty.

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I remembered the touching moment of this year's senior high school entrance examination: my son was distressed and daddy was not allowed to send the test, but his father was abducted and secretly followed.

At the critical moment in our lives, the family always silently supports us behind the scenes, with little exposure, but is willing to protect all of you. Sometimes you will find that it is not the faith that supports you, but your family.

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一位看过晚期胃癌患者的朋友昨天为自己和他的情人买了一份保险。我问他为什么。他说,我不想和我的孩子有任何关系。

不累,三个字,就是带着多少爱。

昨天,我和父亲开玩笑说:你必须对我很好。毕竟,如果你躺在病床上,我选择继续抢救或放弃治疗。谁知道爸爸突然对我严肃地说:答应我,如果你真的有那天,你记得放弃,我不想伤害你。

突然间我感觉鼻子疼了。

在过去的六个月里,我深深地感受到无论我做什么,我的父母都会关心我的情绪。为了我的缘故,有些家长会给我底线。我的父亲说,“只要你快乐,爸爸就可以做任何事情。”/P>

我有时感动。

我不知道什么时候开始,父母不再是无所不能的“超人”。他们下意识地开始依赖你,但他们小心翼翼,害怕你不开心。

“你怎么这么多教你的?你仍然不能!”很多时候,我们和他们一样“意气风发”。但事实上,孩子们可能是如此不择手段,而不是因为他们父母的爱永远不会过时。

偶尔,如果你不满意,你将毫无顾忌地被发泄。当你回顾老人的无知时,你会充满蟑螂!他们真的很老了,他们对我们的依赖感逐渐增强,控制他们的情绪,对孩子耐心地对待他们,你会感到安心,他们很开心!

被爱的人总是无所畏惧。

想想一首歌《当你老了》,父母对孩子的爱是伟大而无私的。要善待他们,要有耐心,多爱,多陪伴,这样,当他们年老时,你就不会后悔自己有罪。

另外,不要让你父母的内疚永远成为我们的罪恶。

我是赵女宿舍的主任,每天都在和你聊聊悲伤的事情。